Comedown Tourettes

I suffer badly from Comedown Tourettes. It’s self-diagnosed, and frankly, self-titled. But even though I’ve created a name for it, I know it exists. Because a lot of us suffer from its symptoms. I just happen to suffer badly.

Comedown Tourettes happens the day after a night of drinking. When you’re hungover and mentally and physically fragile.

Picking up your phone and watching your Instagram story usually triggers it. Or reading your non-sensical 2am tweets you thought were hilarious at the time. And then you get flashbacks to things you did or said when you were drunk. And the regret stings through you. So you start cursing out loud or groaning.

That’s Comedown Tourettes.

“Fuckkk…”

“Nooooooo…”

“Nnnnggggggghhhh!”

The worst part is, it comes and goes. It’s a twitch and you can’t control it. One minute you think you’re over it, then suddenly another cringe-inducing memory hits you. And you’re back in it.

“Fuckkkkk!”

“Aggggh!”

“FUCK!”

I’m getting it right now. As I write this. I was out last night, nothing heavy, but this morning I looked at my Instagram and saw a photo I put up. And that kicked it all off. One minute I’m OK, scrolling Twitter, and then suddenly…

“SHITE!”

Today’s Comedown Tourettes for me is mostly happening in the form of groans and cries of “loser!” and “sap!” It’ll go away, eventually, because I’ll keep repressing my hungover anxieties until I forget them. And then next weekend it’ll all happen again.

The thing is though, I’m completely overthinking what I did last night and what I said. Because I’m being narcissistic. Realistically, barely anyone will remember most of what I did or said. I’m basing that assumption on the fact that I don’t remember a lot of what was done or said by others. I remember having fun though.

I think we all overthink like this, because we all place too much importance on our impact on others. Really, nobody fucking cares about others that much. And inside we’re all worried. At least I hope that’s the case. I’m telling myself that to feel better.

I have a tactic to deal with Comedown Tourettes. It doesn’t cure it but it eases the pain. I call someone who I was with the night before. And our conversation runs something like this:

Me: Do you remember waiting for a taxi last night?

Friend: Yeah, I think so.

Me: Do you remember what I said to you?

Friend: Not really, no.

Me: OK, cheers. Talk to you later.

And then I feel better. Only marginally better, but better nonetheless.

Sometimes though, the Comedown Tourettes is totally justified. Because people do remember things you said, and because those things you said were really embarrassing. In that case, you’re fucked. No two ways about it. The only way to deal with that sort of Comedown Tourettes is to stay indoors all day and avoid human contact. Ideally for at least a week. Potentially a month.

Recently I learned a new manifestation of Comedown Tourrets. And it’s possibly the most lethal. It’s the Post Work-Night-Out Comedown Tourettes. Oh Lord! That one is life-threatening.

I’ve been on many work nights out, but I’ve only ever worked in restaurants before now. And although I’ve had the fear after those nights out, it’s nothing like the fear I experienced last week after a work night out.

My current job is in an office. And for some reason that I can’t explain, I’m finding that the fear is a whole lot worse working in an office. Maybe it’s because the office environment is so formal and the restaurant environment isn’t. So the jump from formality to drunkenly saying something stupid in front of your boss is much more extreme. Which makes the next day’s fear insufferable. (My sister once told her old boss to go fuck himself and the next day she nearly had to be committed to John of Gods. It was a dose of the fear this world had never known before.)

Also, restaurant people are a forgiving people. They spend their working hours directly serving customers who are en-route to the fear and their Comedown Tourrets. Basically, restaurant people are enablers. I love restaurant people for that. They understand the pain, because they serve it up 10 hours a day at affordable prices.

The Fear is a common thing. But it’s the different manifestations of the fear that can ruin you. For me, the most common is definitely Comedown Tourrets. The Onion Man is another.

Nobody wants to hang out with the Onion Man. He’s a right bastard.

The Onion Man mostly only appears after a proper heavy one. We all know him. He doesn’t do much other than be a physical presence, reminding you of how slimy and worthless your existence is. The Onion Man mostly sits at the end of your bed clipping his yellow toenails whilst never breaking eye contact with you as he licks his chapped lips. The worst part of The Onion Man is that it’s just you and him, and he’s not the most disgusting creature in the room.

Anyway, I digress. My head is like soup today. But I’ll get through it. If anyone I was with last night is reading this, please text me and remind me that you don’t remember anything I said. Even if that isn’t true. I’d really appreciate it.

Scary Stephen

I met Scary Stephen in a hostel in Sydney. For the record, that’s not his real name. I don’t want to use his real name because Scary Stephen scared the fucking shit out of me and I don’t want him to find me and rip my head off. Not that I think he’s one of the four readers of this blog. But, still, I’m taking no chances.

So, Scary Stephen.

I was in Manly, Sydney, to see a friend. I booked two nights at the cheapest hostel I could find online. There were options to stay in large dorms but I paid a little extra and went for a shared two-bedroom dorm in the hopes that I would have the room to myself. As you can guess, I didn’t have the room to myself. I was sharing with Scary Stephen.

When I checked in, the woman at reception said, “You’re in room 114 and you’ll be sharing with Stephen.” Immediately, alarm bells went off in my head. It was the way she said his name. “Stephen.” She exhaled it. I could tell that Stephen was a regular fixture at the hostel, and I began to wonder why.

As I climbed the creaky hostel staircase I started concocting a mental vision of Stephen. I told myself that he was probably homeless and stayed at the hostel whenever he could afford it. I imagined that maybe he was annoying, or regularly had run-ins with the staff, which is why the woman at reception didn’t sound so enthusiastic when she spoke his name. But then I stopped making assumptions because I felt like an arsehole.

I got to the room and opened the door. As expected, the room was really shit, which is what you get for $30 dollars a night. There were two small single beds side by side and two cheap blue wardrobes against the wall. Sitting on one of the beds was Stephen. Scary Stephen. And he looked scary as fuck.

Scary Stephen was huge. He must have been six foot five and about twenty stone of pure muscle. His biceps were like bowling balls. They were so big I reckoned he couldn’t touch his own back or wipe his arse. He looked like a WWE wrestler, or an overgrown anthropomorphised British bulldog.

Scary Stephen was bald and covered in tattoos that ran up his arms, neck and the back of his head. He wouldn’t have looked out of place in a Louis Theroux documentary about hardened criminals. Basically, he was the sort of person you don’t want to make eye contact with.

Scary Stephen stood up and introduced himself and shook my hand, which disappeared inside his. Scary Stephen’s voice was strangely high-pitched and he had a very pronounced stammer. It was like meeting a white Mike Tyson. If his real name was actually Scary Stephen, he would have pronounced it, “Thary Thephen.”

I quickly glanced around the room and noticed the lack of suitcase or backpack, confirming that Scary Stephen lived in this room. He also had food like salt, pepper, oats, cereals and tins of tuna on a shelf – things travelers don’t usually have. Beside his bed, Scary Stephen had black construction boots, workout equipment, a giant bucket of protein, and lots of little bottles of pills; pre-workout, ZMAs, amino acids, creatine and other brightly coloured bottles with various combinations of letters and numbers on them. He also had three books; two were biographies of Pablo Escobar and the third was titled The 48 Laws of Power.

Stephen wasn’t homeless, I told myself, he was most likely a recently released prisoner. (I just googled The 48 Laws of Power. The opening paragraph about it on Wikipedia says it’s “popular with prison inmates.”)

“What are you doing here?” Scary Stephen asked me.

“Just visiting a friend,” I replied.

He nodded his head. Maybe it was his resting hard bastard face, but my answer didn’t seem to please him. Clearly, visiting friends was something a little bitch does. Friends are for pussies, I gathered. I immediately regretted having friends. Friends get you killed.

Scary Stephen sat back down on his bed. I put my bag down on my bed, which was worryingly close to Scary Stephen’s. I knew it was going to be a rough night’s sleep lying next to this absolute unit of a man. An image flashed through my head of me as the little spoon and Scary Stephen as the big spoon. My arse cheeks tightened. I really didn’t want to be his bitch. Scenes from Shawshank Redemption replayed in my mind.

“I wish I could tell you Andy Dufresne fought the good fight and the sisters left him be. I wish I could tell you that. But prison aint no fairy-tale place…”

Scary Stephen reached under his pillow then pulled out a A4 writing pad and a pen and began crossing items off a checklist of some sort. Probably people he had killed and was planning to kill next now that he was back on the outside. The writing pad looked like a little police officer’s notebook in Scary Stephen’s baseball glove hands, the standard Bic biro like a bookie’s pen.

“Any plans for the night?” Scary Stephen asked me.

“Trying not to get shanked or raped by you. The usual.”

That’s not what I said. I told Scary Stephen I was going to take a walk and then get food and a drink somewhere with my friend. He nodded again disapprovingly, or so it seemed. Stupid answer. How could I have forgotten so quickly that friends are for pussies.

I didn’t bother unpacking. I told Scary Stephen I was going to look for the bathroom. He told me where they were. I didn’t go to the toilet. I left the hostel and breathed a sigh of relief.

That night I went for dinner with my friend, who left to go home at about ten o’clock. There was no way I was going back to the bedroom while Scary Stephen was still there, awake, being all fucking scary. So, I went for a couple of pints and then walked around for a bit. By midnight I decided I had lived a long and happy life and went back to my room and almost certain death.

Thankfully, Scary Stephen was asleep. He looked peaceful, like a sedated bull. I tried to imagine what he was dreaming about that made him seem so calm. Drowning puppies or burning down an orphanage maybe. Possibly both.

I got into bed with all my clothes on. It’s harder to rape a fully clothed person, I reasoned. Thanks to the drink I slipped off to sleep within seconds.

“FUCK! AAAARGGGHHH!”

I woke up suddenly to loud banging and shouting. It was bright out but only just. Scary Stephen was standing at his wardrobe, ferociously looking for something. He was slamming the wardrobe door repeatedly. Then he stormed across the room and started pulling drawers open in a rage and angrily rummaging through them. Whatever Scary Stephen was looking for, he really fucking wanted to find it, but couldn’t.

I tried to lie still but it was impossible to pretend I wasn’t awake. Scary Stephen kept cursing to himself.

“What the fuck?! Fuck! Fucking fuck!”

I was absolutely terrified. He started looking under his bed but whatever he was looking for wasn’t there either, so he ripped the sheets of his bed and threw them back down. A reasonable reaction. Then he pivoted to search the other side of the room again and kicked my bed on his way.

“Sorry mate. NNNNrrrgh!”

Scary Stephen took one last look in his wardrobe but didn’t find whatever he needed so slammed the door again. What the fuck was he looking for? I wondered. But to be honest I didn’t want to know. With a final slam of the wardrobe door, Scary Stephen ripped open our bedroom door and disappeared down the hallway.

I got out of bed as quick as I could, still with all my clothes on. I grabbed my small bag and made a break for it. It was 6:30 in the morning so reception wasn’t open. Even though I had paid for two nights I left my key on the counter and hurried out the door.

I checked into somewhere else and got a private room. For the rest of the day and night I hoped I wouldn’t bump into Scary Stephen.

Later that night, safe and sound in my private bed, I snuggled into the sheets, unclenched my arse cheeks and googled Scary Stephen’s real name with buzz words like “murder” “prison” “Sydney” “gangster.” I scrolled through Images wondering if his face would come up. But it didn’t. So, I put my phone away and opened my laptop and watched Mindhunter on Netflix – the Charles Manson episode – and slept peacefully.

*All photos of my room with Scary Stephen were taken in a rush as I fled for my life.

Anthony Bourdain

People die every day, and celebrities are people. Even though they live at a distance, famous people have human emotions and flaws just like anyone else. We might admire them, wish we lived their lives, put them on pedestals, and even hold them to standards we would never expect from someone else, but famous people are just like everyone else once the doors are closed. They have anxieties about being worthless and worry about failure. This really hit home for me when Anthony Bourdain killed himself.

Anthony Bourdain was/is the greatest travel writer of the modern era. I love Anthony Bourdain. I love his curiosity, his excitement to learn about new cultures through food, and his bravery to do things differently and use a human approach – often slugging it out in the back of a van or on board a packed train compartment instead of flying first class. I remember he described his approach to learning about how the average person lived in the places he visited. He said – and I’m paraphrasing – that he liked to go to a local bar and ask for the cheapest or most popular beer on tap. Even if the bar had expensive imports that tasted better, Bourdain wanted to know what the factory worker who clocks off at 5 came to drink. And if the bar served good food, he ordered by looking around the room at what most people were enjoying, not by looking at the menu. And then he would talk to whoever was next to him, so that he could listen to them.

I have always tried to have this approach whenever I travel. Because it is people like Anthony Bourdain who have made me want to travel, and who have made me love food and learning. In an ideal world, I would have Anthony Bourdain’s job. He literally went everywhere and connected with cultures through their food. Everywhere excited him, and he was always up for going off road. He didn’t just go to Paris for the bread or Tokyo for the sushi, he went to Congo, Nigeria, Afghanistan – everywhere. Because those places have unique cultures of their own, and the western world tends to depict those places as exotic or quirky. But they’re normal and accessible and filled with insights and lessons to be learned, stories to be told and great food to be shared.

Bourdain never had a plan when traveling, or a very detailed plan. Spontaneity was his mantra, and most of his documentaries revolve around him going with the flow and seeing where he ends up – usually in great eating spots. In one of his documentaries he goes to Naples. While there, he learns that one of his local crew members working behind the camera has a mother who cooks a traditional family meal every Sunday of slow-cooked ragu and pasta. So he asks if he can join them for dinner. No frills, no fuss, just genuine local people eating everyday, amazing food.

Bourdain respected each culture and never acted like the white man who needed to be impressed or shown a good time. He just wanted to communicate, listen, learn and share. I honestly couldn’t think of a better job than Anthony Bourdain’s – traveling the world while eating and learning. I admired him so fucking much. And then he killed himself.

He died because he was unwell. There must have been such an underlying mental illness breaking him down. Every day he must have fought to overcome his depression and eventually he lost the battle. When I heard he had died I was genuinely shook. Someone wrote the news into my lads WhatsApp group, and I went straight to Twitter to learn more because I didn’t believe it, or didn’t want to believe it.

It’s bizarre how much another person’s death can affect you if you have never actually met that person. I admired Bourdain from a distance, but felt personally aggrieved when he died. And that’s the impact he had, because he was such a good person.

Bourdain didn’t became famous or universally loved until his 40s. He was a chef in New York working his arse off, paying bills, dreaming of traveling, doing drugs, reading books, living life – being a normal person. And then he wrote a brilliant exposé about what chefs are really like that got published in the New Yorker and it was turned into a best-selling book called Kitchen Confidential. And his whole life changed. Kitchen Confidential is an amazing read and so full of humor, lived experience, food and philosophy.

Anthony Bourdain was a hero of mine, and I wanted to be just like him, but he didn’t want to be like him. And that confuses me. But it goes to show that we never know what’s going on in someone’s head. His death was such a loss for the world, and it’s tragic he couldn’t see that. He just couldn’t be Anthony Bourdain anymore, though we all wish he could.

He has been dead one year now, and I still think about him quite often. I have re-read Kitchen Confidential, and whenever I want to rewatch something on Netflix, I tend to go for his travel shows. His episode on Dublin is probably one of the only examples of somebody visiting our city for a travel documentary and getting it right. He drinks pints in the Gravediggers, visits Howth, shops in book stores, eats coddle, seafood, breakfast rolls and a full Irish, then he gets locked on George’s Street and ends up in a chipper eating spice burgers and taco fries. That’s something every Dubliner can relate to.

So, if you’re looking for something to read or watch, I would highly recommend Anthony Bourdain. He’s on YouTube, Netflix and in any decent book shop. I fucking love his buzz so much. And I wish I could have met him to tell him that over a pint. What a man.

Thank you, Bernard

I read a lot of poetry at university. I wrote some too. Recently I found some old poems I had written in my bedroom. Reading them again made me want to gouge my eyes out. Straight, white, upper-middle class 21 year old men should not be allowed to write poetry.

A lot of the poetry I enjoyed at university was from the Romantic era. Byron, Shelley, Wordsworth and the lads. Or beautiful rhyming poems like those by William Butler Yeats and The Ballad of Reading Gaol by Oscar Wilde – a banger. But my favourite was, and still is, Irish poetry. Poems about rural life and catholic Ireland. Seamus Heaney shit.

I read Heaney over and over at university, and I still read him. But I remember I wanted to branch out and buy a book of poems by another Irish poet – one I’d never heard of. So I went to my favourite shop in Dublin city, Books Upstairs (the old location on Dame Street), and went to the Irish poetry section. I quickly browsed the shelf until I saw a book of poems by Bernard O’Donoghue. I’d never heard the name before. Lovely, I thought, pulling the book down and only reading the name and nothing else. Straight in my basket.

On the DART home I read the book a few times, sometimes stopping to look out the window because a line had taken me by surprise. I loved the book so much I went back the next day and bought more by Bernard O’Donoghue. And loved those books too.

I wondered why I’d never heard of him, and why in school we had to study Robert fucking Frost and his metaphorical walls and roads, and not the likes of Bernard O’Donoghue, who described things I could see again or made me love home.

For some reason, I assumed O’Donoghue was dead. All the best poets are dead. But a quick Google search told me that Bernard O’Donoghue was alive and kicking. He was also the head of English at Oxford. So I wrote a letter to him. (I was going through a strange letter writing phase. The most embarrassing one I can remember writing was to Richard Dawkins after reading The God Delusion. Every time I remember that letter I wish to be hit by a bus to ease the cringe-filled pain.)

I wrote to Bernard O’Donoghue and told him I loved his poetry and that I was interested in studying poetry further – maybe even for a Masters once I was finished my BA in English. I told him I’d love to go to Oxford, but asked if he knew any other good spots to study poetry because I didn’t think I’d get into Oxford. I even sent him some poems and a short autobiographical story.

Bernard O’Donoghue wrote back to me a few weeks later. He said he liked my poems, particularly the one about my dog. But he said my story was better. He said he liked my writing style and said that I “showed a command for prose.” I was absolutely fucking chuffed with that. It meant the world to me.

At the end of his letter, Bernard O’Donoghue told me that I should look into studying Creative Writing rather than poetry. Ever since I was a kid I dreamed of writing a book. When I was three I wrote one called Fly Away With The Birds on pages of A4 computer paper and illustrated it with little drawings. I’ve no idea why it’s about flying away with birds. But I enjoyed writing it and illustrating the clouds and the birds which I drew as capital Ms. Then I taped the pages together with black electrical tape so it opened like a real book. My sister still has it.

In his letter, Bernard O’Donoghue told me to apply to the University of East Anglia in Norwich. He said he considered it the best college in the UK for studying a masters in Creative Writing. Hearing that from the head of English at Oxford, where they also offer a masters in Creative Writing, I knew that UEA had to be good.

A couple of months after receiving his letter, Bernard O’Donoghue gave a talk to first year English students at UCD. I got the time wrong and arrived an hour late – he was already gone. So I ran to the school of English office and asked if O’Donoghue was still on campus. He had gone for tea I was told, and had left his briefcase in the office, so he’d have to be back. I sat down next to his briefcase and waited.

Soon he arrived and I asked him to sign my books of his. He said he remembered my letter, and told me again that he had enjoyed the short study I had sent, and asked if I had given a Masters at UEA any thought. That blew me away. I doubt he remembers me know, but to have been remembered that day left me in awe of him.

It made me think I could try writing, or any form of storytelling as a career. So much so that I entered a competition in university called The Maeve Binchy Travel Award, where the winning proposal for a creative writing or storytelling project won funding from Maeve Binchy’s widower – the children’s author Gordon Snell – to travel and work on a story.

And I was chosen. The first undergraduate to win. It was some feeling. With the funding I went to West Africa for a few months and worked on a story that I hope to finish some day.

That prize was an amazing feeling, and only made me believe even more. So I went back to Bernard O’Donoghue’s letter and decided to look into a Masters at UEA. After doing some research, I applied and sent them a story. Then I got an interview and was offered a place to study Creative Non-Fiction and Biography writing. I was so fucking excited.

My year at UEA was one of the best years of my life. I met lovely, brilliant people who became friends and only made me want to make a living from writing even more. It’s not easy though. People aren’t really hiring writers in the same way they used to. The landscape has totally changed. But there’s always a way in and I believe that.

And all because of that random day in the book shop, and the letter. Mad buzz.

Thank you, Bernard.

And now my watch has ended

Since mid February I have had the most hilarious job ever. Every day from 8am until 5 or 6pm, I sit on a chair at the entrance to a building site and open a gate whenever a vehicle needs to enter or leave. That is literally all I do.

When I first started I was worried about boredom, so I sheepishly asked my boss, “Is it OK if I read my book?” He replied, “Mate, I don’t care if you sit there wanking, just open the gate when it needs to be opened.”

So every day I read my book, and maybe once an hour I have to get up and open the gate.

The gate is a steel gate on wheels. It’s really light. I’m actually laughing writing this. Because they pay me $26 an hour, or roughly $1,000 a week, just to read my book and push the gate open once in a while. And after a month on the job they asked me if I would be able to do overtime. So once the clock goes past 4pm I go from earning $26 an hour to $39. Ridiculous.

I must read 2-3 books a week. That’s no exaggeration. I like to read anyway, but being given 10 hours a day to read and be paid for it was a dream come true. Particularly when I started because it was summer so I just sat there in my shorts, soaking up the rays, chilling with my book. A lot of the workers on the building site ask me “How the fuck do you do this?” And honestly, I don’t get how they wouldn’t want to do this. A lot of them – especially newcomers to the site or delivery drivers – tell me “You definitely have the easiest job in the city.” I go on my phone, watch YouTube videos, read twitter, look at funny shit on the internet, read my book, go back on Twitter, and on and on until the last trade vehicle has left the construction site. Then I lock the gate and go home.

I understand that the job isn’t stimulating at all. And I don’t really talk to anyone. But honestly I fucking love it. Because it’s a means to an end. My rent is about $220 a week and I can earn that in a single day of reading my book.

But lately the novelty has worn off. Because it’s almost winter in Melbourne and cold as fuck. Like so cold. I have to wear two jumpers and a big heavy rain coat, and even at that I’m still cold. And it rains a lot too. And it’s windy. Imagine standing on the sidelines of a football pitch on a miserable wet and windy day; It’s like that. I can sit under the roofs of half-built houses on the site for protection, but still, it’s cold.

I never wanted this job but I got it because my friends work as recruiters for a construction firm and they absolutely sorted me out. I probably could have got a job in a restaurant without any problem. I have about ten years experience working in restaurants as a waiter. But I never want to serve another table again. It’s soul destroying, in my experience anyway. I’ve worked for great people in great restaurants, but the customers make it hard. There are so many cunts in the world. And a restaurant is a place where cunts thrive. Because it’s one of the few places of commerce where the customer can absolutely never be wrong, no matter how ridiculous their complaint is. For example: “Can I have the ribeye (the cut with the most fat) and can I have it medium rare but with no blood? (impossible)” And then when it arrives, “Excuse me, I thought I asked for no blood and also, this is very fatty. I’m not happy.” I’m surprised more murders aren’t committed by waiters. Also, FYI, when you’re in a restaurant, every waiter is talking about you and about how much of a cunt you are. But only when you act like one of course. Be under no illusion though. Most waiters hate your fucking guts. Unless you’re sound.

I digress. Back to the gate.

I never wanted to work in a restaurant again. And I didn’t want to work in a shop, because fuck that buzz. So my options were limited, because it’s very difficult to find work as a writer. In fact it’s almost impossible. Particularly now that nobody pays for the writing they read; I’m a culprit too. I read The Guardian every day, but I’m not a subscriber. The internet is killing publications. Because everything is free. So, with my options limited and with every creative job I applied for responding “No,” I tried finding work as a receptionist or something similar – generic office work – but my working holiday visa is the job application equivalent of leprosy. Nobody wanted to touch me. So I settled for labour work on construction sites because it pays well.

But after two days I hated it. Because I was spending my tram journeys to work googling how to use certain power tools. I fucking hated it. And I was scared going to work because one day I was handed a nail gun and nearly impaled my hand. Also, I was being sent to a different site every day and being spoken down to and treated like an idiot. And the work was so hard and monotonous, like carrying really heavy shit to a skip all day. It was so shite. I knew I couldn’t keep it up. It’s no way to live: waking up dreading the day ahead.

Then I was given the gate shift. The site I’m on is a retirement village. Some of the houses are already built and occupied. The oldies that live in them love me. Some of them give me chocolate and bring their dogs to say hello. Now that it’s really cold, they give me hot food like chicken and leek pies or quiche loraine, and one of them gave me hand warmers for my pockets.

But today is my last day. I got a job in a startup as a marketing assistant. And I can’t wait. I’ll get to work in a warm office and actually do something stimulating where I have to come up with ideas. And I’ll get to talk to people. And they have an office dog who I’m never going to stop hugging and chatting to. And it’s 20 minutes from my apartment. I’m currently traveling 1 hour 40 mins to the gate but I don’t care because once I get here I sit on my arse. But not any more. That’s it for me. Today marks the end of the funniest job I’ve ever had (and I’ve had so many different jobs). After nearly four months I’m done. And winter officially starts tomorrow, so I’m getting out at a perfect time. God love whoever has to replace me and stand out in the cold.

I’ll miss the auld ones though. They’re a sound bunch. And they feed me. But thank the baby Jesus I’m finally done.

My watch has ended.

“You just don’t get it, do you?”

Films are like music in that, for the most part, they have to be structured in a particular way or else they won’t make any sense. This is particularly true with regards to the plot of a film. The most common plot structure is the classic three act narrative. Basically, it goes like: Order, Disorder, Order Restored. In other words: Everything in Gotham City seems to be under control, then The Joker shows up, then he’s defeated and everything appears to be fine again.

There are other very common tropes. The hero who has personal problems, the misunderstood villain, the lover that got away, the failure who will only succeed when they learn to love themselves, the self-destructive successful person haunted by their past. It’s basic shit and we can all see it from a mile away, but if these tropes are done well we forget about how familiar it all is.

But some things in films are so overused that they have become cliché, or just tired and eye-rollingly cringey. For example, the ugly duckling. Who would have known that all Anne Hathaway needed to be pretty in The Princess Diaries was contact lenses and a blow dry?

So here’s a list of tropes, stock characters and cheesey dialogue and other various film tropes that I think are so overused, their use in a film tends to turn the film into a comedy.

⁃ If a character coughs into their hand or a tissue, and then looks at it and sees blood, we the audience now know they’re going to die from an illness, but the other characters in the film won’t learn for a while.

⁃ When the hero confronts the villain, and the villain tries to reason with the hero by saying, “You know, we’re not so different you and I.”

⁃ Why does nobody say goodbye at the end of phone conversations? There’s always just a dramatic hang up. If this was a realistic Irish film the scene would drag out for two minutes longer. “Go on, go on, alright I’ll talk to you, yeah, yeah, yeah, bye, bye, yeah, I will yeah, alright go on, yeah, no? Ah stop?! Really?”

⁃ If a female student drops a book and then goes to pick it up, only for her hand to touch a male’s hand who is trying to help her with her fallen book, those two characters are going to end up together.

⁃ A scientist is explaining a complex scientific problem or solution and for the audience’s benefit someone will tell them “In English, doc!”

⁃ How many people do you know that actually drink straight whiskey in real life? And as a simple afternoon beverage at work?

⁃ “Get in, no time to explain.” Cool, I’ll just trust you with my life so. The fact you’re covered in blood and clearly in a panic is absolutely zero cause for concern. Can’t wait.

⁃ A character is being chased and they get into their car and hurriedly begin to start it, twisting the key in the ignition. Uh oh, engine won’t start? Let it chug for a few seconds to amp up the tension so.

⁃ When the film is about high school kids but the actors are all 27-30 years old.

⁃ Two hard as nails characters come face to face and a stare off begins. The tension is so high that we the audience begin to wonder if a fight is about to happen, then suddenly both characters break into a smile and it becomes obvious that they’re old friends. I feel like Vin Diesel does this a lot. What a strange way to greet an old friend. Just say hello. Long time man. How’s your ma?

⁃ Why do a lot of women in films keep their bra on during a sex scene? Because the actor agreed to no nudity in their contract. Fair enough. Most sex scenes in general are unnecessary anyway though. Just have the characters initiate what they’re about to do then cut to the morning after. Audiences aren’t stupid, we can fill in the blanks. But if you’re going to show us some riding at least give us some boobs too. Which leads me on to my next point.

⁃ It’s very easy for women in films to orgasm within like ten seconds of penetrative sex.

⁃ Did a woman who has already had sex at some point in the film just throw up randomly? You know what that means. Better make a trip to Mothercare love.

⁃ In fight scenes or otherwise, if somebody is knocked unconscious and stays unconscious for a few hours, there’s a very strong possibly they’ll have severe lifelong brain injuries. Not in films though. Sure it was only a baseball bat full force to the back of the head mate. Get over it.

⁃ Actors clearly drinking from an empty coffee cup. Just put some fucking water in it if you have to.

⁃ I hate it when mom or dad has gone to all the trouble of making an elaborate breakfast but nothing gets eaten. There’s fresh OJ, coffee, pancakes, bacon, toast, cereal and fruit. But our super cool teen protagonist comes running down the stairs and picks up a single piece of toast and flies out the front door with a “See ya later mom, got to run!” First, have some respect you little cunt. Somehow, your parents found the time in the morning before work to make this huge spread of food, and you just fuck off without a care. Asshole.

⁃ When characters have full plates of food in front of them in a restaurant but then rush off to do something more important, leaving all the food behind. That shit must have been expensive. And for that matter, did you already pay for it? Most places bring you the bill at the end, so now I’m assuming you’re doing a runner. Saved by the Bell were always at this.

⁃ Smoking a joint calms most people down. They’ll want to watch a film and eat some food or else just put their headphones on and relax. For others it makes them anxious or gives them chest pain. That’s about it. In films though it causes people to act like they’ve drank half a litre of vodka and everything is hilarious or fascinating. Sometimes they see colours or shapes as if they’re on the strongest acid available. And then suddenly they get the munchies like they haven’t eaten in days and start shoveling food into themselves as if they’ll never eat again. Particularly first time smokers on screen.

⁃ What’s the story with drug deals in films? People walk up to a dealer and hand over cash and the dealer hands over the drugs and both people walk away without a word spoken. What? Is the dealer not going to count the money? Is the user not going to check out the product? And not so much as a “Lovely flaked buzz off that stuff there lad. Nice head high. So what’s your buzz for evening then bud? Yeah, yeah, gewon, sound, talkcha.”

⁃ When someone forces themselves on to a character (almost always a man forcing himself onto a woman) for a kiss (usually a creepy boss or coworker) and the woman’s boyfriend shows up just in time to see the kiss but leaves dejected just in time to miss seeing his girlfriend push the creepy man away and slap him.

⁃ In a scary movie or thriller when a character is hiding from the villain, and everything goes completely silent right before the villain appears out of nowhere. Is this villain the fucking wind?

⁃ What sort of amateur villain goes to all the effort of coming up with an elaborate scheme to blow up a building and kill countless innocents only to install a bomb with a countdown timer on it? Just blow the fucking place up.

⁃ Also, when villains capture the hero, why do they always have to explain to the hero where the hero went wrong in their attempts to stop the villain, thus giving the hero’s mates just enough time to save the hero and stop the villain? Scott Evil in Austin Powers makes a good joke about this. “Wait, we have a time machine? Why don’t we just go back in time to when Austin Powers is taking a shit or something and just kill him then and there?”

⁃ “You just don’t get it, do you?”

⁃ “Everything you told me was a lie?”

⁃ When one character grabs another character who is acting hysterical and shakes them while shouting “Get a hold of yourself.” Or else in a similar scenario when instead of shaking the hysterical character they just slap them and then the character snaps out of it and says “Thank you. I needed that.” If someone slapped me like that I’d be swinging digs at them.

⁃ In a horror film, if a character is looking in a bathroom mirror that opens up like a medicine cabinet, and they open said medicine cabinet, expect to see someone behind them when they close the cabinet again. Same goes for if they bend over to splash water in their face. When they stand up straight again, expect to see someone behind them.

⁃ A police man or detective is at a crime scene. There’s a bag of indistinguishable white powder. What does the detective do? Dips their finger inside and tastes it. “Yep, that’s cocaine.” Are you mental you mad bastard? Could have been acid or rat poison. Get that shit to a lab first.

⁃ “I’ll have a beer.” Which one? There’s like 20 on tap. Be specific you prick.

⁃ Is your character an overly confident, highly condescending person and you want them to seem extremely intelligent? Better give them a British accent so. On the other hand, is your character a lovable salt-of-the-earth type who ain’t got no time for your fancy ways and doesn’t understand basic fancy person etiquette cos they is a beer and BBQ type of guy? Best introduce them while they’re fixing up a car engine in a barn or riding a horse through a farm. And give them a Southern accent like Texas. The city gal who was once afraid to get dirt on her ‘spensive shoes will soon be all misty-eyed for that there fella, ya hear?

⁃ If you want your reckless police officer to solve a crime, have their superior take them off the case. That way they can act outside the law and save the day, thus earning back their job.

⁃ When a character needs blood for some magic spell or a blood pact, and they slice a knife down the palm of their hand. Are you messing? Just get the knife and knick your thigh or the top of your forearm or some shit. Your palm? Really? That’s gonna take ages to heal and be so inconvenient for basic functions, like using your sword or driving your car or even just pushing doors open.

⁃ The good guys are all in a room and they feel defeated because they don’t know how to defeat the villain. So someone (usually the token idiot of the gang) says a stupid throwaway line like “Well I guess it just wasn’t meant to be.” And then the secondary main hero has a eureka moment and says “What did you just say?” So the other idiot character replies “It wasn’t meant to be?” And then the eureka moment character gets all exited and says something stupid like “Oh my God Gordy, you’re a genius. Bee! We can use bees! The villain revealed earlier that he’s allergic to bee stings. All we have to do is get a load of bees and then we…” And then they explain to everyone else how they’ll defeat the villain. After their explanation they’ll kiss or hug the idiot character and call them a genius. Problem solved.

⁃ “I did NOT sign up for this.”

⁃ Unpopular boy loves popular girl, even though the popular girl is a horrible person. So the unpopular boy asks his best friend, unpopular girl best friend, to help him get the popular girl. But in the end, unpopular boy will realise he doesn’t want popular girl. He wants what’s been right in front of him the whole time – unpopular girl best friend.

– Are both characters in your film only pretending to be a couple and never in a million years would you ever expect such different people to be a real couple? Well, guess what’s going to happen? Yep. Likely starring Eva Mendes, Sandra Bullock or Reece Witherspoon.

⁃ “But Chad, I don’t get it? Winning state is all you’ve ever wanted.” “No, dad. It’s all you ever wanted.”

⁃ The Manic Pixie Dream Girl. Basically, the carefree female who only exists in the film to teach the male lead how to appreciate life more and to inspire him. Think Zooey Deschanel in any role she’s ever played.

⁃ Is it even a Vietnam war film without Jimi Hendrix music, Credence Clearwater Revival or Buffalo Springfield?

⁃ If a native population is facing extinction at the hands of colonial rulers, send in a white male character to live amongst the natives and learn their native ways so that the final battle is all the more poignant. See: The Last Samurai, Avatar, Pocahontas, Dances with Wolves etc.

⁃ If you have a one-dimensional tough female lead who “can handle herself,” make sure she tells the male lead that she grew up with four brothers, ideally after she’s punched a man who just hit on her or said something sexist.

⁃ It’s not just the characters who become stock characters. The actors playing those characters often play the same roles in every film. Particularly lesser known actors. For example, do you you need the perfect actor to play the tough female lead who can handle herself? Get Michelle Rodriguez.

– Do you need an actor to play an awkward, nervous, stuttering but intelligent assistant? Likely as a politician’s aid, scientist, or sidekick to a villain? Get Toby Jones.

⁃ Do you need an actor to play the role of a generic boss or police chief – someone who isn’t a star but is also sort of recognisable, so they’ll just fill the gap and get the job done? Get this guy. Kurt Fuller.

⁃ Do you need a generic Mexican gangster? Get this guy. Noel Gugliemi.

⁃ Do you need a solid actor who can always do the job well but audiences never know what the actor’s name is? Get this guy. William Fichtner.

– Do you need another excellent actor to play a takes-no-prisoners type of villain or authority figure with a menacing voice? You need Charles Dance.

⁃ Do you need an actor to play an authority figure, likely a politician or king, who is brash and arrogant and doesn’t listen to the lead character until it’s too late? Get this guy. Brian Cox.

Do you need an excellent actor to play a typical middle-aged, average joe looking American man but the role of the character in the plot is less one dimensional than the character may seem based on appearance? There’s only one man for the job. John Carroll Lynch.

– Do you need an actor to play the old person who says inappropriate but funny things at the wrong time? Unfortunately for you, Ellen Rose Albertini died in 2015.

⁃ Do you want guarantee your film is nominated for an Oscar, no matter how terrible it is? Make it a biopic, preferably a music one so the great songs distract the audience from how bad the film actually is.

And one last one. Do you want to let your audiences know there’ll be more to this character even though the character seemingly died? Simple. Have the dead character twitch or open its eye just before cutting to black.

Vanilla Vagina

Etymology is the study of the origin of words. I love knowing where words come from, particularly unusual words or words that are hilarious.

A well known joke is that the person who decided on the spelling for ‘dyslexia’ must have been having a laugh. But, as is the case with many words, ‘dyslexia’ is derived from Latin and Greek and Germanic languages. ‘Dys,’ meaning ‘difficult,’ coming from German and ‘lexis,’ meaning ‘speech’ in ‘Greek.’ So, as you can see, there’s nothing funny about that. It’s pretty boring.

Some words are just lifted directly from another language, particularly French. Think of how many French words we use in English – ‘restaurant,’ ‘information,’ ‘comfortable,’ etc. There’s a German word used in English that my friends and I love: ‘Schadenfreude’ – that feeling of pleasure you derive from seeing bad or unfortunate things happen to someone, particularly your friends.

You’d be forgiven for thinking etymology is boring. But buckle up kids, because a lot of words have great stories behind them. Whether these stories are true or false is irrelevant sometimes, especially if the story is good enough. My favourite example of this is the word ‘marmalade.’ Apparently the origin of ‘marmalade’ – the word used to describe that minging old granny jam – comes from royalty.

King Henry VIII’s daughter, Queen Mary, was a mental yoke. She loved having Protestants executed as she tried to re-establish Catholicism as England’s primary religion. Burning people at the stake was a favoured method of Mary’s. As a result, she became known as ‘Bloody Mary,’ which also lends its name to that minging tomato based vodka drink. But back to ‘marmalade.’

Mary was once terribly ill, so the story goes, and she couldn’t stomach any food without vomiting. Her servants began to worry about her feeble state, so her chef – a French man – decided to make her something tasty and easy to eat. He made a sweet concoction of boiled oranges – Mary’s favourite fruit – and sugar. Mary loved the dish and was soon back to her old self, ordering the deaths of countless innocents and just having the all round craic. Her French chef decided to name his creation ‘sick Mary,’ which in French is ‘Marie malade.’ True or false? Who cares, it’s a good story.

Another example of fascinating word origin is ‘kangaroo.’ Apparently English settlers in Australia – when they weren’t busy butchering natives – wanted to know more about the strange animal, so they asked some natives what the animal was called. Obviously there was a language barrier, so the English men couldn’t get their question across. They pointed at the animal and asked the aboriginals for the name of the animal, who understood that a question was being asked, but didn’t know what the question was. So in their own aboriginal language the natives replied ‘I don’t know,’ which is ‘kangaroo.’ If you’ve seen the film Arrival you’ll have heard that story before. True or false? I think it’s false, but again it’s a good story.

English settlers have a history of misunderstanding native words from languages of the places they conquered. Irish people know that as well as anyone. Think of our town names. They’re meaningless in English – Dublin, Belfast, Malahide. But in Irish they have significance, and their meanings are often quite literal descriptions of the places. ‘Dubh Linn’ or ‘The Black Pool.’ ‘Béal Feirste’ or ‘The Sandbar at the Rivermouth.’ ‘Mullach Íde’ or ‘The Hill of Íde.’ The British couldn’t pronounce those Irish words though so they just anglicised them.

Place names often come from people, with ‘Rome’ being named after the mythical Romulus who was raised by a wolf before building the famous city. Or ‘America’ being named after the Italian explorer Amerigo Vespucci etc. So place names are less interesting, or at least, more straight forward. They’re often named after whoever ‘discovered’ or conquered the area, or for whoever sponsored such expeditions. Like how the English in America named some of the first states; Virginia (Elizabeth I), Georgia (George II), and New York (Duke of York).

But do you remember being in school and learning about Iceland and Greenland? That was some buzz, no? I’ll refresh your memory.

Viking explorers went in search of fertile land. They ended up in Greenland which is basically a giant glacier. Bollocks, they thought. So they left. Soon enough though, they came across Iceland. Lovely buzz, they thought, because there was fuck all ice there compared to Greenland. They didn’t want other people knowing that though, so to confuse other explorers they named the place with all the ice ‘Greenland’ and the place with all the green ‘Iceland.’

The Iceland and Greenland story is like when in 1488 Portuguese explorer Bartolomeu Dias named the bottom tip of Africa – where the Atlantic Ocean begins to merge into the Indian Ocean – the ‘Cape of Storms,’ because the area was a hotbed of crazy weather that often destroyed ships. However, who wants to travel through a place called the Cape of Storms? Exactly. So the name was changed by the Portuguese king, John II, to the ‘Cape of Good Hope’ to encourage further expeditions.

‘Assassin’ is a good one. It comes from the crusades. During the crusades, apparently there was a hardy bunch of lads who were members of a Muslim sect that loved smoking hash before going out to kill Christians. They called themselves the ‘hassishiyyin,’ basically meaning ‘stoners’ in Arabic. And over time, as is often the case, the world evolved.

And who could forget the famous origin of the word ‘sandwich’? I’ve heard variations, but most of the tales boil down to the 4th Earl of Sandwich asking his valet to bring him some beef between two slices of bread, because he liked to eat on the go, or because he liked eating while playing cards and didn’t want to get grease on his paper cards. Either way, his friends liked his style and began asking their own servants for ‘a Sandwich.’

The word ‘hokey-pokey’ is often associated with a dance move. For me it’s always been the name of an ice-cream shop in Malahide village when I was a kid. The shop used to be where Malahide cabs is now. Last year when I was doing research for my MA dissertation that I wrote on Italian immigrant settlers in Scotland and their influence on British and Irish culture, I learned the origin of ‘hokey-pokey,’ and it actually does mean ice-cream, in a way. Long story short, Italians were the ones to bring ice-cream to Britain. It was sold from steel push-cart vats that Italian men would wheel around Georgian and Victorian London while ringing a bell and shouting in Italian, ‘Gelato, ecco un poco!’ or ‘Ice-cream, here’s a little bit,’ offering tasters to customers. These men became known as the ‘hokey-pokey men,’ derived phonetically from ‘ecco un poco.’

‘Clue’ is a cool one and has its origins in Greek mythology. Theseus, founder of Athens, was a famed Greek mythological hero like Heracles and Achilles. One of Theseus’ most famous stories of heroism was his defeat of the Minotaur – the half-bull, half-man monster that lived in the labyrinth. Theseus’ lover, Ariadne, had given Theseus a ball of yarn before he entered the Minotaur’s labyrinth. This was so that Theseus could unravel the ball of yarn as he travelled through the maze. Ariadne hoped that once Theseus had killed the beast, Theseus could then trace his way back out of the maze using the line of yarn, much like Hansel and Gretel with their breadcrumbs that helped them find their way back out of the witch’s forest. A ball of yarn in Greek is ‘clew,’ and so the word came to mean something that points the way, or something that can help us figure out the origin of something by working backwards, like a modern detective using clues to solve a crime.

Another well known example is ‘caesarean,’ or a ‘C-section’ as it’s commonly referred to. This is the method of delivering a newborn child by cutting a woman’s stomach open. The famous Roman Emperor Julius Caesar was born this way, hence the name.

When writing or spelling, we’ve all heard of uppercase and lowercase letters – basically, capital letters or normal size letters. The origin of the words ‘uppercase’ and ‘lowercase’ comes from the beginnings of the first printing presses used for making books. Manuscripts were first printed using press machines that used carved out metal tablets and individual letters that could be arranged in whatever way needed to form words, before being covered in ink and then pressed onto paper. It was a bit like how names and numbers are printed onto football jerseys today in Lifestyle Sports. The individual carved out metal letters of the printing press were stored in a large cases; Big letters in the top part of the case, small letters in the bottom. Hence, uppercase and lowercase.

There are so many more. I won’t go on though. But here’s a final example and one that Irish people love to tell foreigners. ‘Whiskey.’ Irish people love to wax lyrical about how whiskey in Irish is ‘uisce beatha,’ meaning ‘water of life.’ This meaning makes our love of a drop of drink quite poetic, so we like to believe. But apparently the Romans got there before us. The Romans used to refer to hard alcoholic spirits as ‘aqua vitae,’ or ‘water of life.’ This phrase got adopted and translated into early Gaelic. The phrase was then translated again into early English as ‘usquebae,’ which over time evolved into ‘whiskey,’ thanks to the English anglicising the Irish word for water, ‘uisce.’

Actually here’s another last cool one. ‘Bankrupt.’ It comes from Italian, ‘banco rotta,’ which means ‘broken bench.’ Medieval Italian bankers, like the unfortunate and ill-fated Shylock in Shakespeare’s Merchant of Venice, used to trade in public squares from wooden tables or benches. When a banker ran out of money, their wooden bench was broken. This practice was both metaphorical and literal. It meant they could no longer trade as a banker, because they were ‘bench broken,’ or ‘banco rotta.’ The English word derived from this Italian phrase also has some Latin influence, with ‘rupt’ meaning ‘to break’ in Latin.

Ah sure look, how about one more for the road?

Apparently ‘vanilla’ comes from ‘vagina.’ Firstly, vagina is a Latin word. It means ‘sheath’ – a protective covering. In the 15th century, Spanish conquistador Hernán Cortés led an expedition to South America that resulted in the fall of the Aztec Empire and the establishment of Mexico. During that expedition, Cortés’ men came across the vanilla plant. The word they gave to the plant was derived from ‘vagina’ because of the appearance of vanilla pods, and because you have to split vanilla pods open to get to the sweet spot.

I’ll finish there, with the vagina one. Google some yourself though. It’s a roller-coaster of fun.

Fire and Blood

I’m a big fan of Game of Thrones. Most people are. If you’re not a fan of Game of Thrones, there’s a strong chance you actively revel in the fact you’ve never watched it. And you scoff at the mention of its name as if that somehow makes you cool. And you say things like, “Nnnnyeaaaa, it can’t be better than Breaking Bad.” Well, it is. And you’re a bellend.

Anyway.

Following the latest episode, and Daenerys Targaryen laying waste to King’s Landing with her dragon and reducing innocent civilians and buildings to ashes so that there’s basically no capital left to rule, I’ve been reading a lot of the same criticisms on Twitter of the writing of this episode, and the writing of Daenarys as a character in general.

The criticisms claim that the show’s writers have butchered Dany as a character. That she would never descend into such madness. That she was supposed to be a liberator, a breaker of chains, a born Queen.

To that I say: Get the fucking boat.

With regards to the criticisms of season seven and eight in particular – that they’ve been too rushed and often poorly plotted and at times just downright ridiculous – I tend to agree. For the most part. Case in point: Tyrion’s plan to capture a wight. What the fuck was that shit? Pure stupidity and something somebody as intelligent as Tyrion would never suggest given the enormous risks involved. And then again to trust Cersei? Come off it. And also the lack of character development for Euron was shite. He just showed up, infallible and almighty. Crap. To be honest I could go on and on.

So yes, there has been a lot of lazy, poor writing in the recent seasons. But one thing I can’t agree with is the ridiculous takes on Daenerys going mad being a stupid decision by the writers. As if loyal fans and lovers of Daenerys have been betrayed by her descent into villain. There’s a number of reasons why I can’t get on board with this sort of moany shite.

Firstly, George RR Martin has confirmed that the show will end similar to how his books will end. He said he advised the producers and chief writers David Benioff and D.B Weiss on his intended ending from the get go, so they’ve known for a very long time how the show will end. I trust they haven’t just randomly decided to ignore Martin.

Secondly, the clues and outlines for Daenarys’ madness have been there from the beginning. Yes, her actual descent was rushed – and I’ve already agreed the pacing of the show has been far too rushed as of late – but there have been fan theories surrounding her madness for years. Go watch any Daenerys mad queen prediction video on YouTube. There are so many, going back years.

Now, just look of some of these tweets following the latest episode. (And check out my battery percentage. Nice.)

Did these people forget they are watching Game of Thrones and not The Lion King? Since when did Game of Thrones offer happy Disney endings for our favorite characters? Never. That’s why we love the show. It builds up our hopes only to fucking shit on them from glorious heights. Ned Stark, anyone? Robb Stark? Oberyn Martell? Game of Thrones subverts your expectations and forces you to rethink your opinions of characters like no other show. Just think of Jaime and how much we all hated him before loving him. (Yeah his ending was a bit shite though, I’ll agree with that.)

But let’s just have a quick rewind on Daenerys as a character, and why her madness was always a huge possibility.

She was born a Targaryen to an infamously insane father “The Mad King.”

Targaryens initially came into power, not through a democratic vote, but because Aegon the Conqueror arrived in Westeros with three dragons and burned the country to the ground until everyone agreed to bend the knee to him. So, Targaryens are ruthless mad bastards who don’t give a shite.

The Targaryen family motto is “Fire and Blood.”

Daenerys, from day one, spent her entire life at the side of her malicious brother Viserys. He would have told her all about the injustice their family endured as a result of Robert’s Rebellion. Thus, Dany would have been brought up on hate and a lust for blood and vengeance. And this hate soon manifested itself. Daenerys, a supposedly innocent childlike figure in the beginning, very quickly vowed to take back the iron throne, the ruling seat of a country she had never been to and whose people never knew her.

She swore to burn cities to the ground in order to do this. Her words were full of venom. She literally swore she would reclaim what was taken from her family through “fire and blood.” She said her dragons would kill anyone who stood in her way. The only thing that kept her possible madness in check though was the wise council of her closest allies – intelligent people like Jorah and Missandei. Both are dead now though. Including two of her dragons. A lot of those deaths were brutal too. Think of the emotional toll that takes on a person’s mental state of mind.

And with regards to her potential madness being kept in check by strong council, not even the likes of Tyrion and Varys could get through to Dany in the end. Jon Snow gave it a shot, and had a momentary breakthrough when he told her that burning down cities would just make her “more of the same.” But ultimately she just went nuts.

Before all that though, she was good, right? Nah.

This is where I can’t believe all the “No! Not Dany! She’d never be that evil!” shit the Twitter critics are spewing following Dany’s destruction of King’s Landing. She has a long history of cruelty.

At Mireen Danaerys crucified hundreds of slave owners. Pretty fucking gruesome.

“But what about the slaves she freed?” Yeah, what about them? She abandoned them, causing their country to descend into a civil war that has surely cost most of their lives and the lives of countless innocents.

And remember Randyl and Dickon Tarly? Samwell does. Dany burned them alive for refusing to bend the knee. Mental harsh. And did she show any remorse? Not a chance.

Is any of this painting a picture? Daenerys is violently ruthless. She always has been. She’ll do anything to be in power. Why is that? To break the wheel? Bollocks. She’s the epitome of what she swears to destroy. Any sane person can see that. Just look at her ridiculous “bend the knee” charade she played with Jon. And then look at how desperate she was for Jon’s silence when she learned he had a better claim to the throne. She fucking killed Varys for telling people this information.

She is a ruthless power hungry maniac. If breaking the wheel is all Dany wanted then she wouldn’t give a shite about the iron throne. She’d be happy to let Jon claim it and then let him break the wheel, because he doesn’t even want it.

OK, so she’s done some shit things, but why the madness? Well, Targaryens are famously mental, as already established. But also, nobody wants Dany and they’ve made that perfectly obvious. Her entire adult life, she has been preparing herself to return home and reclaim the iron throne. Yet when she finally arrives home she finds that everyone (in the north anyway) would rather Jon Snow as their ruler.

The people of Westeros don’t give a fuck about her. She expected them to all love her, like in Mireen (short-lived though it was), but nobody loves her. And on top of that, anyone Dany really cared about is gone now; Taken from her; Her closest friends and two of her dragons. Even Jon doesn’t want her anymore. And then when the people of King’s Landing didn’t revolt against Cersei and declare their love for Dany, like she assumed would happen, she just fucking snapped. Watching Missandei be brutally executed was just the straw that broke the camel’s back.

A lot of Daenerys’ initial appeal was hardly genuine either. Remember, she bought the unsullied. They never chose to follow her. In Mireen, where she experienced all that “Meesa” god worship from the freed slaves, don’t forget that she showed up in Mireen and had three scary fucking dragons. Yes she freed the slaves, so they loved her for that (again, short-lived), but who says no to three dragons?

Moving on. The Dothraki? She burnt down the Dothraki’s temple and killed their leaders, surviving the flames herself, so the Dothraki probably only follow her out of fear. If you saw someone walk out of a fire unscathed you’d think they’re some sort of sorcerer or god, so of course you’d do whatever they said.

Jon Snow then? Jon Snow only wanted Dany for her army. He never wanted her as a person in the beginning. He needed her soldiers and her dragons and her dragon glass. Recruiting her army for the battle with the night king was his primary goal. Falling in love with her wasn’t in the plans.

And what about Dorne, The Tyrells and The Greyjoys? They only followed Dany because they hated Cersei and wanted revenge or because they weighed up their options and (intelligently) decided to be on the side that had three fucking dragons.

So spare me the “this is terrible writing” bullshit with regards to Dany’s character arc. I’d love to see some of these keyboard warriors attempt to write something better. But some people are just pigeons. They shit on everything and enjoy it.

The same people who overly criticise these sort of things are the sort of people who sit on their fat ass eating chocolate and drinking coke while watching sports and critiquing the minutiae of an athlete’s performance.

Seriously, did anyone ever actually see Dany as a beacon of virtue from season two onwards? She’s been ruthless ever since Khal Drogo died. Yes, you may have liked her or rooted for her, but that doesn’t mean she never had the potential to not live up to your expectations. She was always a conqueror, not a ruler.

The show could have done a much better job with letting Dany’s madness play out over a longer period of time though. Amidst the rushed atmosphere of Season 8, Dany’s madness feels reactionary, like she’s lashing out. That’s poor writing. I’ll agree with that point.

I would rather have seen Emilia Clarke be given the time and material to portray such a vital character become what she swore she never was – a mad tyrant. That sadly wasn’t the case. However I still enjoyed the shock of seeing her kill everyone in King’s Landing. Great television.

The Big Les Show

I’ve had a ridiculous amount of different jobs. This week I almost hit rock bottom with a new addition – telemarketer. I say almost, because they said no to me. And thank God to be honest.

In the interview, they told me I probably wouldn’t be hired due to my lack of sales experience. I was also told many other things that I found hard not to laugh at. Or cringe. I genuinely had to screw up my face and hold my breath to try not to laugh or cringe. This probably played a part in my failure to get hired. Either way, it was an experience.

As I said, the job was for a telemarketing role. Telemarketing is a real piece of shit profession; Cold-calling people to try and sell them something they don’t need so you can make commission. I went for the job because I want a change of scenery and better hours with the same basic pay as what I’m doing now. (Yes, I’m still working “security” on a construction site. And no, I would rather flirt with my mother than go back to restaurant/hospitality work.)

Telemarketing is scumbag work. I don’t care if you are a telemarketer and you’re reading this now. I think it takes a real McAsshole to be able to call a random person and try sell them a product you don’t believe in just for some money. A call from a telemarketer can piss someone off so easily. It’s capitalism at its worst.

There’s a brilliant scene in the film The 40 Year Old Virgin that I think sums up most people’s attitudes towards telemarketers.

Andy (Steve Carrell) is at home and he decides to finally call the woman he likes, Trish (Catherine Keener). But when Trish answers, Andy panics and pretends to be a telemarketer.

Trish: Hello.

Andy: Hey, how you doing?

Trish: Um… how you doing? Who is this?

Andy: This is… eh… James. (He hits himself with the phone out of angry embarrassment)

Trish: Do I know you, James?

Andy: I was… eh… wondering if you had a few moments to talk about… laundry detergent?

Trish: Are you a telemarketer, James?

Andy: Yyyyeah?

Trish: Are you at the top of a tall building? Can you get to a roof quickly? JUMP OFF! I mean, you people are fucking sick. Get a real job, why don’t you? Go shoot yourself in the fucking head. Hey, why don’t you just get a knife and run into it? Why don’t you just do that, huh?

Andy: Okay.

Trish: Alright I’ll see you later, James.

Andy: Nice to talk to you.

Trish: Fuck your mother James, okay? Bye bye.

End scene.

So, yeah. I went for a job as a telemarketer. And I take it as a compliment that they didn’t think I was cut out for it.

Any writing or publishing job I’ve applied for hasn’t got back to me, and I’ve applied for a lot. Maybe the jobs don’t actually exist, or maybe I’m just not that good. Either way, my desperation for a job I really enjoy waking up for continues. So much so that I thought I’d want to cold call unsuspecting members of the public to sell them shit they never inquired about buying.

But at least with telemarketing I got to have the experience of going for an interview. That’s one thing the telemarketing job had over the writing jobs I’ve applied for; They actually gave me an interview. And what an interview it was.

I arrived at the office and was told to wait on the couch in the reception. I picked up the only magazine on the coffee table, Men’s Health. Then, a short muscular man in his late 40s early 50s came out to see me. He had an east London accent – “alright geeza?” – and a sleeve arm tattoo. He was wearing tight ripped jeans and a painted on polo shirt that was so tight I could make out the contours of his nipples.

“Are you here to see Chris?” he asked me.

“Yes.”

“Chris aint here I’m afraid. Had to dash off to China last minute. You know how it is.”

I didn’t know if that was a question or not. The short stocky man lead me into a room with a big table and a white board on the wall with things like “Relate. Sympathy. Target. Repeat name.” written on it.

I sat down and the stocky English man introduced himself as the “CEO. Owner. Top brass.” He said he didn’t usually come in and do interviews etc, but he was today because Chris was off saving the world in China.

“That’s the game though, isn’t it.”

I don’t want to use this man’s real name, so I’ll call him Les, short for Lesley. Les looked like he was telling the truth – I believed him when he said he didn’t come into the office much. I reckon he spends most of his time inside sun-beds. Or in the gym flexing his triceps in the mirror.

With his balding pink head, big arms and puffy chest, Les had the look of a B-grade WWE wrestler. That famous discount teeth doctor in Turkey has definitely had a visit from Les. And so has the local hair transplant surgeon. Where he lacked in height, Les certainly made up for it in width, like a wheel of cheese. He reminded me of a beetroot, but with biceps. If you’ve been to the strip in Puerto Banus or Magaluf, you’ve seen Les a million times.

As well as smiling and showing off his blindingly white veneers, Les also liked to talk. A lot. Mainly about himself. Within five minutes of meeting him I got the abbreviated history of his life as a business man, or “mogul” as he put it. The ups. The downs. The ups again.

“And I mean ups mate. Big money, yeah? All worth it, y’know? If anyone knows the game, it’s me son.”

Eventually Les remembered I was in the room and he asked me about myself.

“Do you like people?” he asked.

“Fucking hate them. Prefer dogs,” I said in my head.

“It’s very important you like people,” Les told me. “Talking to them. Getting to know them. Getting to know their needs, so you can use that. That’s how you make someone buy. Anyway, tell me about some of the recent work you’ve done.”

I spoke for about ten seconds.

“Pff, writing? Ghostwriter? What does a ghostwriter do?” Les scoffed.

I gave Les the explanation I often give, about how someone like Cristiano Ronaldo would be in high demand by publishers for an autobiography, but he’d need help. So in steps a ghostwriter. Except when I used this explanation with Les, I swapped Ronaldo for Wayne Rooney, given the physical similarities between himself and the footballer.

“Anyone can do that – write a book,” Les informed me. “We’ve all got a story in us, don’t we?”

I nodded, agreeing with what he said. The second part anyway.

“I’m going to write a book. Actually I’m already planning it. In fact, I’m so busy that I might need a ghost-whatever. But probably not. I have my book waiting to be written though. It’s all up here,” Les told me, tapping a finger to his purple fivehead.

“What’s it about?” I asked, hoping to keep him talking about himself for as long as possible, because I knew he enjoyed it, and then maybe he might remember our interview as a pleasant encounter for that reason alone.

“It’s about me, clearly. You seen the Wolf of Wall Street? Well imagine The Wolf of Wall Street meets Jerry Maguire meets The Social Network with a bit of The Big Short thrown in. Except better. It would also have a mix of The Office thrown in – the UK one obviously – because I like to have a laugh. And I already know who’ll play me.”

“Ross Kemp?” I wanted to ask.

“Tom Hardy. Can you see it?”

I just nodded, my lip nearly bleeding from having to bite it so hard.

“I know it’ll be a best-seller, and a number one at the box office,” Les added. “I’m thinking Summer 2020.”

It’s early May 2019. Now it was my turn to scoff. I didn’t.

“Anyway, enough of this. Let’s just take you inside and let you see where the magic happens.”

Les got one of his employees to come into the room. He introduced us and told the young man to show me around. We left the room and followed the smell of instant noodles and yesterday’s dinner being heated up in a microwave.

The magic was happening in a room the size of a tennis court. It was full of young people, mostly Irish and English backpackers or working-holiday types in their early 20s. They looked hungover. And exhausted. And depressed. Everyone was wearing headphones and talking into them, saying things like “Hello, my name is Danny and I was wondering…” before being cut off and having to start again. “Hello, my name is Danny. I was wondering if you had a few minutes to…”

Sorry Danny, try again.

“Hello, my name is Danny and I…”

Nope. Try again Danny. And again Danny. And again. Ad infinitum.

I thanked the guy who showed me around then headed for the exit. On my way out I walked past the room where Les was interviewing people. He was now talking to a young woman, with his arms spread far apart as if describing a large fish he’d caught. I reckoned he was coming to the ups and downs part of his life-story.

“Big money.”

Fr. Pat Noise

The next time you are in Dublin city, go to O’Connell Bridge. Go to the west side of the bridge, leading upriver towards Temple Bar and Heuston Station. On top of the wall of the bridge you’ll find a plaque. It reads:

“This plaque commemorates

Fr. Pat Noise

Advisor to Peadar Clancey

He died under suspicious circumstances when his carriage plunged into the Liffey on August 10th, 1919

Erected by the HSTI”

The plaque is an intriguing one. Not because of the “suspicious circumstances,” but because not a single word printed on the plaque is true.

There was no Fr. Pat Noise. He never existed.

Apparently two brothers had the plaque created in memory of their father. His name wasn’t Pat Noise, and he wasn’t a priest, but rumours suggest that the name Pat Noise is a play on the Latin ‘pater noster,’ meaning ‘our father.’

Historians and academics were questioned about the veracity of the plaque’s claims, but nobody could give an answer, because there was none to give.

Dublin City Council eventually had the plaque removed, but it was swiftly replaced by the pranksters with an identical. This was in 2007. As a result of the plaque’s initial removal and subsequent replacement, councilor Dermot Lacey proposed that Dublin City Council have a vote on whether or not the plaque be allowed to stay. Lacey was for the plaque remaining on the bridge, saying it was ‘a bit of madness, a bit of colour… It’s a monument to eccentricity and it adds a bit of colour to our lives.’

The council voted in favour of the plaque remaining and it’s still there today. Go have a look.

Personally, I love that buzz – that something harmless and far fetched was allowed to stay, purely because it was nothing more than a bit of clean craic, and apparently a nice homage for two sons to their father (who presumably loved a good yarn.)